why don't I simply listen

Boys give good advice. And from previous experience, the ones that I get advice from, tend to be right. It's hard when they're right, because I tend to not be comfortable with what they suggest I do. It's hard. No one likes doing things that are hard. Myself included. And this is especially true when it comes to things that I've struggled with or attempted to deal with in the past. But somehow, they are right, regardless. Darn it anyway.